Never judge a book by its cover!

One thing I’ve learnt whilst meeting so many people through the matchmaking, is NEVER judge a book by its cover!

The most interesting and charismatic people are always ones that take you by surprise…. incredible people hide behind very average photos!

I have people turn down dates with people they would be soooo lucky to have.

And say yes to dates where I just think it’s really not the right match for you and you’re going on a purely superficial level.

When looking for a great match, someone who is going to be by your side for a long term commitment, what are you looking for?

Looks will fade and change over time, you will spend a huge amount of time sitting in their company and eating dinner, will it be fun and engaging for you?

Think about the qualities and attributes you’d like them to have.

Attraction does grow the more you get to know and like a person, their inner beauty shines and you become physically attracted where initially you may not have seen the wow factor,,,is the wow factor everything?

And do you have the wow factor even?? This is the question  when striving for perfection sometimes we can miss great opportunities.

Be open to getting to know people and they might surprise you